Integrity is one of the most
overused words in the English language.
Everyone talks about integrity. We expect it from our leaders, our government
officials, our friends and family, and, pretty much, everyone else we
encounter. Do we really mean it, though? Do we really expect everyone to act
with integrity?
Do we really even know what that means?
The Merriam-Webster Thesaurus lists one definition of integrity as, “conduct
that conforms to an accepted standard of right and wrong.” Think about that. Right
away this can be problematic. Who’s standard should it be? Who will be doing
the accepting? How many people must agree with something for it to be
acceptable behavior.
The issue I have with this definition and, by default, with the overuse of the
word integrity itself, is that it is too relative.
What happens when cultural opinion
shifts? What happens when louder voices
drown out quieter ones? It seems that every day we see or hear of things that
society is getting comfortable with that, in times past, were not acceptable
behaviors. While this is not the time or place to get into the full discussion
of this phenomenon, I will submit that, using this definition creates too much
freedom. This gives me too much leeway in what is acceptable and what is not.
If the foundation of what is right and wrong is based on what those around me
find acceptable, then there really is no true right and wrong. If I change my crowd, does my right and wrong change? If I move to another state or another country does what was
unacceptable suddenly become acceptable.
If so, then things like lying or cheating or stealing, which I believe to be
wrong, are only wrong based on where I live or who I am around. If I work with
people who lie and cheat and steal as a general course of business then that is
the accepted form of behavior. If I participate in that behavior, then, I can
still say I am acting with integrity. On the surface, we would say that
comparison is ludicrous. If so, then
why do we behave that way?
God has given us His definition of integrity. The entire written word of God is
his definition of integrity. Because of this, I think a better word to use
would be incorruptibility. Webster’s describes this word as, “not subject to
decay or dissolution,” or, in other words, unchanging. God’s truth is incorruptible.
What is right will always be right. What is wrong will always be wrong. An
incorruptible thing will always be exactly as it is. It will not change with
time like the latest hairstyle. It was and is and always will be. This is
because the true Judge of right and wrong is God, who was and is and is to
come. God’s definition of integrity changes it from a relative to an absolute.
Now, under this standard, even though I may work among people who lie and cheat
and steal, it is NOT alright for me to do the same. By the saving grace of
Jesus’ death and burial and resurrection, what was once corruptible is changed
to incorruptible. That means me. Because of Jesus, I am being made
incorruptible. In order for me to live a life that truly exhibits integrity, I
must behave as one who is incorruptible.
Here, then, my responsibility has just gotten a
lot more serious. It is not enough for me to not lie
or cheat or steal. I must stand up to that behavior in others. It is not okay for
me to look the other way, just as long as I don’t participate. Silence is
acceptance. In order for me to not be corrupted by that atmosphere, I must flee from it or stand and oppose it. Either choice would work. If I stay, though, I must be
prepared for ridicule and opposition. Those who use the Webster’s definition of
integrity will not be comfortable around any person who uses God’s definition.
We are ultimately accountable to God alone. His instruction is to walk in
integrity. No matter where we are or who is watching, He has set the
expectation.
That expectation is that we stand incorruptible.
Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth
through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently
with a pure heart, having been born again, not of corruptible seed but
incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever….”
1 Peter 1:22-23, NKJV